Holy god in heaven, with so much going on over here—major decision making and now what appears to be hot flashing (information on that mess will be provided on an absolute need to know basis)—any pleasurable diversion is most welcome.
This past weekend, I finally watched a movie I’ve been meaning to get to for some time now: Searching for Sugar Man. Now I don’t normally bore you with the ins and outs of my Friday night activities, the highlight of which is usually a bag of chips, but this film is so extraordinary, so full of what it is to be human, that I just have to devote a few words to it.
It’s the story of ’70s singer/songwriter Sixto Rodriguez, an unknown in his native America, and unbeknownst to him, a legendary, believed to be dead superstar in apartheid-era South Africa. Sort of like me—I’m a nobody in Canada, but I’m huge in southern Lithuania.
Anyway, this blog is about France and Switzerland with random mentions of sagging body parts, but underneath it all, it’s about joy and purpose, and maybe even a little inspiration to deviate from the expected path. Sometimes, it’s about facing challenges and disappointments and, occasionally, I drift into the pleasure and pain of living more with less.
Searching for Sugar Man‘s elegant presentation of these themes left me breathless. Overarching life lessons aside, the poetry and music of Rodriguez, and the incredibly intriguing and sometimes heartbreaking story of his life and career, make for a documentary that should become the standard to which all others are held. It’s that good.
Far be it for me to tell folks what to do, but bear in mind that I used to be a doctor. If you haven’t seen it yet, I prescribe dropping whatever you’re doing to take it in. It’ll be good for you, shrink’s honour.




Just a second vote for the movie. It was absolutely fantastic. The musician is the most zen person you can imagine – totally without any ego, and yet obviously hugely talented. Both my husband and I were in tears at the end of the movie, and I’ve been raving about it ever since. The movie won an academy award last week, and the directors noted that Rodriquez had been invited,but didn’t want to come since it would take too much attention away from the movie. What a guy. Bobbi, it’s a lesson in accepting what life brings you.
The movie sounds great. I look forward to seeing it.
Thanks Bobbi.
I grew up in South Africa and remember hearing the ‘Cold Fact’ album (yep it was vinyl) for the first time – it was incredible. When I moved abroad, I couldn’t believe that no-one outside of South Africa, had heard of this man – even my partner who was involved in the music business and knew of the most obscure bands/singers. I am thrilled that the movie won an oscar and that Rodriguez’s music is once again being enjoyed. Now, I’m away to listen to it again … sweet memories of youth.
Somebody should make a movie on your generation of South Africans, the one that fought for justice and change. South Africa’s Greatest Generation, I think.
I’m glad that this movie won the Oscar, for exactly the reasons you cited. It was competing against some dreary good-for-you political stuff that I was sure would make people feel smug in voting for them — when the real purpose of art is to inspire, validate, and [word that means feel alive to the mystery of life]. Not to annoy, lecture, or make you feel guilty.
Interesting that it struck you enough to blog about it. Just got a note from my cousin Mark who had not seen a movie in about 4 years and watched this 3 times as he was so moved by it. It is on my list to watch.
Cheers
I loved that movie – went into it not knowing as much as what you have written about – the best way to see it. Think people should write “Spoiler Alert” when discussing movies, shows, etc. so that people can stop reading if they want to enjoy them “cold”. Realize this is hard to do once a movie hits the big time!
Bobbi, thanks for the reminder. Home for a snow day…..going to check it out. As always, love reading about your journey…..hell, isn’t that what life is all about.
Definitely will put this on my list of movies to watch BUT on another note, what a surprise when The Medical Post came in the mail at work and who is on the front cover…..none other than Dr. Bobbi French!! It was a lovely article and beautiful picture. Funny how everyone commented the same thing about the pic…..”look how happy, relaxed and beautiful she looks”. Guess when you were still here you were sad, tense and ugly….well maybe not ugly! Miss you!
And to think I once relied on you for my every move. I was hoping you wouldn’t notice the cover ;)